The Traffic last Feb. 19, 2013

Just yesterday, people flooded from Mambaling up to Pardo waiting for jeepneys and buses going to Cebu South. My working hour ends 5:30 pm, I went out of the office around 5:35pm and waited for a Minglanilla multicab to pass by in front of Fooda Supermarket. It took 30minutes and there's still no multicab, some people waiting beside me decided to have a walk to Punta and some to Basak yet I still stayed there hoping. Until 7:00 o'clock in the evening comes and there was none. So, I decided to have a walk to Basak Elementary School and (drop jaw) amaze of the people waiting there (countless). 

 

I wondered why so many people still there and haven't take a ride so I started asking to the people near me and answered, "Naa man gud ga-rally sa Tabunok, Talisay wala paagi-e ang bridge gi close ky ga rally ky naa si Nonoy" - "There was a rally held at Tabunok Talisay and the bridge was closed , the rally was caused to Pres. Noynoy's presence", I together with people waiting there got lots of "rejections" to drivers that they won't let us take the ride due to traffic "di ko mbyahe day ky traffic kaayu dili kalusot sa Tabunok" that is most of their lines. Until, a yellow multicab passed by and we get in though the driver insisted he won't be travelling to South anymore but we insisted and the driver has nothing to do but start the engine and go but he informed us that he will not take the route to Tabunok but instead take the SRP. That's it! I went home 8:11pm. 

I got sad when I knew that my baby Mark Ezekiel was waiting for me so long until he fell asleep. My mother said that my son kept on watching the door as if waiting for someone or searching. 

I just hate the traffic yesterday, the organizer of that was not thinking of the effect they caused to the people from work or from school going home.

5 Valentine's Day Surprises and Gifts for your Partner

Valentine's Day is a celebration of love. It is a special occasion wherein we try to make an effort just to surprise our love one on that day. Showing love to our special someone must be everyday but since most of us are already at work and find it difficult to spend a lot of time for our partner and even seldom see and talk to each other...that is why Valentine's Day is celebrated. Actually, it started when Roman Saint Valentine died February 14 but I will not discuss more about history.

I will give you some tips for this valentines. Actually, most on the lists is based on what I really want as a girl and also based on others likes and dislikes to receive this Valentines.

TIPS FOR GUYS:

1. Girls are sensitive - they find it very touching when you went out for dinner in a place wherein it is only the two of you with candle light. It make them feel very important and cared for and like a princess.

2. Never give your girl perfumes during valentine's - she might take it in a negative way around, that you thought of her that she is already having a bad odor

3. Never ask her what she wants to have - Asking her what she wants will just ruin your day and her day too as much, it only means you really don't know her and it won't give any surprise at her of what you will give to her

4. A scrap book with your pictures both - It will make her feel that you really love her that you make an effort which is unusual for boys to do so. Roses and Chocolates still do but so common to all boys and so easy to buy those things.

5. When dating to her never glance on other side rather keep an eye on her - it will make her feel that your attention is only for her.

TIPS FOR GIRLS

1. Give him T-shirts, Polo (BRANDED) - it is much appreciated than giving them chocolates

2. Buy him his favorite perfume.

3. Give him poster or jersey of his favorite basketball player.

4. Give him DVD tape of rewind fights of his favorite boxer/wrestler player.

5. Cook him his favorite dish - A way to a man's heart is through his stomach and I agree with that. Definitely.

My Plea for USJR video scandal

Recently, the video of 2 students involved in the said sex scandal circulate fast last week that brought it to TV news , radio and front page of newspaper/s.

I really don't see the video nor got the interest to watched it but it knocked me off of the thought that these days many youth involve in such action (Well, I can't blame them since more of our TV shows these days involve deep intimacy of opposite gender even in a very young age actress/actor already play a role of thing such as that.) See? It is not just about pointing finger to the 2 students involved but it also SHOULD KNOCK the door of our government to WAKE UP of such issues and ANYTHING that could cause youth be influenced (TV shows, advertisement, variety shows which shows ALMOST NAKED dancers). Yes, the girl in the video at the time they've done such scandal is already not belong to youth since she was 22 years old at that time but how about the youth of today that are more aggressive and curious on such thing?

I pity the girl on the video for now she is facing a deep shame, fear and mixed emotion due to how people react. My plea is that stop passing that video guys and instead of laughing and enjoying the fun by watching it please put your shoe on her or on her family what it your sister or your daughter will also do the same act as that? Will you be happy of that? So please BE MATURE ENOUGH. Passing that video won't help the future of our youth but helping to stop it will do a big help.

And to those who are planning or already have their own sex video for fun please do delete it before you will face the same track. And one thing also, why need to make a video out of it? Don't consider sex just like a game of cards or a play, it is a sacred action. It is done with truly in love partners and no need to take a video, it is an action which is very private and respect each other while doing such thing. A video is a big NO NO!

Being a Mother is Priceless

There is no perfect mother in this world but one thing I am sure of is that NO MOTHER THAT WILL HARM HER CHILD. I born a child last October 13, 2012 and that is the happiest day of my life seeing my baby boy named Mark Ezekiel. I don't have any idea of taking care for an infant before but it just came out of nowhere the instinct of a Mother - from carrying my son, breastfeeding, sleepless nights watching over him, changing him diaper when wet and etc. 

There's is no subject taught in school of how to become a mother and what to do but I can say that being a mother is the most wonderful feeling in this world and the most difficult Profession yet the most Fulfilling one.

Photo Gallery: Mark Ezekiel U. Capangpangan

Our 1st Wedding Anniversary

"Time flies so fast" that is all I can say. It is somewhat like yesterday that we'd got married but this January 7, 2013 we are now one year married. I know this doesn't guarantee of no quarrels and misunderstandings but for me this guarantee one thing and that's the thought that no matter what will happen and through problems that come in our way, I and my husband will always remember and do what we pledge in front of the altar and that's "for better of for worst till death do us part". I would like to thank my husband for the cake that he brought for the celebration of our 1st wedding anniversary.

Support ANTI-RH BILL : Aking Panawagan

Hindi ako isang perpektong tao, ni hindi super konserbatibo na tao pero di rin ako liberated. Let us just say, I also been into a premarital sex before we got married with my husband. I admit it as a big mistake and a sin and I confess it. I am writing this not for you to judge me nor be like me but I am thinking only to the benefit of all and the next generations to come. 

I was once judge by a former friend because why I keep on insisting as being an ANTI-RH though I already commit and done something which is against to the deeds of a REAL ANTI-RH SUPPORTERS. I don't know how can I convince you to support Anti-RH but I will still do my very best to have your ears and hopefully followed by your heart and mind. 

Alam kong may mga punto rin ang paggawa ng RH BILL, iniisip lang din nila ang kapakanan ng tao lalo na sa panahon natin ngayon na tumataas na ang bilang nga mga taong nakikipagtalik kahit di pa kasal at lalo na ng mga kabataan natin. Marami na ring sakit ang nagsilabasan na nakakahawa o nakukuha sa pakikipagtalik. Pero naisip ba rin ng may gawa ng RH BILL kung ano ang kahihinatnan nito sa pag-uugali, kultura, tradisyon at paniniwala ng bawat Pilipino? Baka naman ang naiisip na siyang makakabuti sa kapakanana ng marami ay siya pang maging malaking problema at magpapahamak sa atin. 

Sa pananaw ko kasi, kapag naipasa at na implement yang RH BILL, are we 100 % secured and assured na magiging matured enough ang mga kabataan at dahil may maagang kaalaman na sila sa SEX at mga pagcontrol nito ay mas iiwas sila sa maagang pakikipagtalik? Marahil pero di LAHAT, o kaya ay iyan pang RH BILL ang maging daan para mas mahikayat ang mga kabataan na pasukin ang bagay na yan dahil alam na nila kung ano ang dapat gawin para maiwas sa pagkahawa ng sakit dulot ng pakikipagtalik o di kaya ay mag e-enjoy na sila gawin yan dahil alam na nila kung ano ang pagkontrol para hindi agad mabuntis. 

Alam kong marami ring PRO-RH dyan at marahil tumataas ang inyong kilay habang binabasa niyo ito. Pero naisip nyo ba at gusto nyo ba mapasa iyan sa inyong mga anak? O baka naging PRO lang kayo dahil ang iniisip nyo lang ay ang inyong sarili. Totoo, magiging bukas ang isip ng mga bata tungkol sa SEX kung ipapatupad ang RH BILL pero ang PAGGAWA O DI PAGGAWA nila sa bagay na yan ay hindi tayo nakakasiguro, nasa sa kanila pa rin ang desisyon. Imbis na ang bata ay dapat iniisip ay ang pagiging bata (maglaro nang taguan, patintero, piko, etc.) pero binuksan natin ang isang pag-iisip na kalakip niyan ay ang sexual urge nila dahil sa maaga natin silang tinuruan tungkol sa SEX. Lahat ng tao ay may sexual urge, pero kung walang mag uudyok nito na gisingin iyan, gigising yan sa tamang panahon. Pero nakakasiguro ba kayo lalo na sa mga kabataang lalaki na alam nating natural na mapusok, ay mas iisipin nya ang makakabuti sa ibang tao kung malaman niya at may sapat na siyang kaalaman sa SEX o di kaya ay mas maiisip nya ang kanyang sarili at pansariling pangangailangan.

Sana di lang tayo nag-iisip nag sa isang sulok lang tumitingin kundi sa bawat sulok dapat tayo nakatingin, di lang ang makakabuti kundi ang masamang pwedeng maidulot din nito. Bakit pagdating sa Batas ng Tao ay mas aktibo tayo at nakikisuporta? pero ang Batas ng Diyos ay binabalewala nalang? Ganyan na ba talaga kalala ang ating bayan na hindi na natin iniisip ang Diyos kundi puro sarili nalang natin at ang mga makamundong gawain, bagay at paniniwala? Sana mahiya naman tayo sa isinasakripisyo ng Maykapal dahil sa ating pagiging makasalanan, tapos ngayon mas palalalain pa natin ang ating pagiging makasalanan dahil sa ating pagiging Selfish at Bulag sa mga Makamundong Bagay at Gawain. Kung isinusulong ninyo ang RH BILL as pamaraan ng sinasabi ninyong Healthy Family Living and Planning, ay nagawa niyo bang isulong ang mga gawain, mga utos at mga gusto ng Diyos na gawin natin? o di naman kaya ipinapaubaya niyo lang yan sa simbahan sabay sabi "kaya nga may simbahan para sila ang magbahagi tungkol sa Diyos" pwes ang masasabi ko sa inyo NAKAKAHIYA kayo, masyado kayong makasarili.