My Plea for USJR video scandal

Recently, the video of 2 students involved in the said sex scandal circulate fast last week that brought it to TV news , radio and front page of newspaper/s.

I really don't see the video nor got the interest to watched it but it knocked me off of the thought that these days many youth involve in such action (Well, I can't blame them since more of our TV shows these days involve deep intimacy of opposite gender even in a very young age actress/actor already play a role of thing such as that.) See? It is not just about pointing finger to the 2 students involved but it also SHOULD KNOCK the door of our government to WAKE UP of such issues and ANYTHING that could cause youth be influenced (TV shows, advertisement, variety shows which shows ALMOST NAKED dancers). Yes, the girl in the video at the time they've done such scandal is already not belong to youth since she was 22 years old at that time but how about the youth of today that are more aggressive and curious on such thing?

I pity the girl on the video for now she is facing a deep shame, fear and mixed emotion due to how people react. My plea is that stop passing that video guys and instead of laughing and enjoying the fun by watching it please put your shoe on her or on her family what it your sister or your daughter will also do the same act as that? Will you be happy of that? So please BE MATURE ENOUGH. Passing that video won't help the future of our youth but helping to stop it will do a big help.

And to those who are planning or already have their own sex video for fun please do delete it before you will face the same track. And one thing also, why need to make a video out of it? Don't consider sex just like a game of cards or a play, it is a sacred action. It is done with truly in love partners and no need to take a video, it is an action which is very private and respect each other while doing such thing. A video is a big NO NO!

Being a Mother is Priceless

There is no perfect mother in this world but one thing I am sure of is that NO MOTHER THAT WILL HARM HER CHILD. I born a child last October 13, 2012 and that is the happiest day of my life seeing my baby boy named Mark Ezekiel. I don't have any idea of taking care for an infant before but it just came out of nowhere the instinct of a Mother - from carrying my son, breastfeeding, sleepless nights watching over him, changing him diaper when wet and etc. 

There's is no subject taught in school of how to become a mother and what to do but I can say that being a mother is the most wonderful feeling in this world and the most difficult Profession yet the most Fulfilling one.

Photo Gallery: Mark Ezekiel U. Capangpangan

Our 1st Wedding Anniversary

"Time flies so fast" that is all I can say. It is somewhat like yesterday that we'd got married but this January 7, 2013 we are now one year married. I know this doesn't guarantee of no quarrels and misunderstandings but for me this guarantee one thing and that's the thought that no matter what will happen and through problems that come in our way, I and my husband will always remember and do what we pledge in front of the altar and that's "for better of for worst till death do us part". I would like to thank my husband for the cake that he brought for the celebration of our 1st wedding anniversary.

Support ANTI-RH BILL : Aking Panawagan

Hindi ako isang perpektong tao, ni hindi super konserbatibo na tao pero di rin ako liberated. Let us just say, I also been into a premarital sex before we got married with my husband. I admit it as a big mistake and a sin and I confess it. I am writing this not for you to judge me nor be like me but I am thinking only to the benefit of all and the next generations to come. 

I was once judge by a former friend because why I keep on insisting as being an ANTI-RH though I already commit and done something which is against to the deeds of a REAL ANTI-RH SUPPORTERS. I don't know how can I convince you to support Anti-RH but I will still do my very best to have your ears and hopefully followed by your heart and mind. 

Alam kong may mga punto rin ang paggawa ng RH BILL, iniisip lang din nila ang kapakanan ng tao lalo na sa panahon natin ngayon na tumataas na ang bilang nga mga taong nakikipagtalik kahit di pa kasal at lalo na ng mga kabataan natin. Marami na ring sakit ang nagsilabasan na nakakahawa o nakukuha sa pakikipagtalik. Pero naisip ba rin ng may gawa ng RH BILL kung ano ang kahihinatnan nito sa pag-uugali, kultura, tradisyon at paniniwala ng bawat Pilipino? Baka naman ang naiisip na siyang makakabuti sa kapakanana ng marami ay siya pang maging malaking problema at magpapahamak sa atin. 

Sa pananaw ko kasi, kapag naipasa at na implement yang RH BILL, are we 100 % secured and assured na magiging matured enough ang mga kabataan at dahil may maagang kaalaman na sila sa SEX at mga pagcontrol nito ay mas iiwas sila sa maagang pakikipagtalik? Marahil pero di LAHAT, o kaya ay iyan pang RH BILL ang maging daan para mas mahikayat ang mga kabataan na pasukin ang bagay na yan dahil alam na nila kung ano ang dapat gawin para maiwas sa pagkahawa ng sakit dulot ng pakikipagtalik o di kaya ay mag e-enjoy na sila gawin yan dahil alam na nila kung ano ang pagkontrol para hindi agad mabuntis. 

Alam kong marami ring PRO-RH dyan at marahil tumataas ang inyong kilay habang binabasa niyo ito. Pero naisip nyo ba at gusto nyo ba mapasa iyan sa inyong mga anak? O baka naging PRO lang kayo dahil ang iniisip nyo lang ay ang inyong sarili. Totoo, magiging bukas ang isip ng mga bata tungkol sa SEX kung ipapatupad ang RH BILL pero ang PAGGAWA O DI PAGGAWA nila sa bagay na yan ay hindi tayo nakakasiguro, nasa sa kanila pa rin ang desisyon. Imbis na ang bata ay dapat iniisip ay ang pagiging bata (maglaro nang taguan, patintero, piko, etc.) pero binuksan natin ang isang pag-iisip na kalakip niyan ay ang sexual urge nila dahil sa maaga natin silang tinuruan tungkol sa SEX. Lahat ng tao ay may sexual urge, pero kung walang mag uudyok nito na gisingin iyan, gigising yan sa tamang panahon. Pero nakakasiguro ba kayo lalo na sa mga kabataang lalaki na alam nating natural na mapusok, ay mas iisipin nya ang makakabuti sa ibang tao kung malaman niya at may sapat na siyang kaalaman sa SEX o di kaya ay mas maiisip nya ang kanyang sarili at pansariling pangangailangan.

Sana di lang tayo nag-iisip nag sa isang sulok lang tumitingin kundi sa bawat sulok dapat tayo nakatingin, di lang ang makakabuti kundi ang masamang pwedeng maidulot din nito. Bakit pagdating sa Batas ng Tao ay mas aktibo tayo at nakikisuporta? pero ang Batas ng Diyos ay binabalewala nalang? Ganyan na ba talaga kalala ang ating bayan na hindi na natin iniisip ang Diyos kundi puro sarili nalang natin at ang mga makamundong gawain, bagay at paniniwala? Sana mahiya naman tayo sa isinasakripisyo ng Maykapal dahil sa ating pagiging makasalanan, tapos ngayon mas palalalain pa natin ang ating pagiging makasalanan dahil sa ating pagiging Selfish at Bulag sa mga Makamundong Bagay at Gawain. Kung isinusulong ninyo ang RH BILL as pamaraan ng sinasabi ninyong Healthy Family Living and Planning, ay nagawa niyo bang isulong ang mga gawain, mga utos at mga gusto ng Diyos na gawin natin? o di naman kaya ipinapaubaya niyo lang yan sa simbahan sabay sabi "kaya nga may simbahan para sila ang magbahagi tungkol sa Diyos" pwes ang masasabi ko sa inyo NAKAKAHIYA kayo, masyado kayong makasarili. 

Mantayupan Waterfalls in Cebu run dry.

I heard just this morning from a news that Mantayupan Falls in Barili run dry. I was shocked and felt so upset because I haven't got there yet. It was one of my plans if I could have time and money to spend together with my family to go there since I have not yet seen a waterfalls. How sad to know that the water run dry.

As I read the Sun Star News (http://www.sunstar.com.ph/cebu/local-news/2012/07/12/sinkhole-appears-river-falls-run-dry-231503), there's a sinkhole in the river bed that caused the water to run dry. According on the news, from a testimony of Mr. Ariel Pucayan, who lives near the area, it was last Tuesday afternoon that the water started to subside and the sinkhole began to grow wider and deeper. It was also confirmed from the Barangay officials that both the riverbed and falls dried up when the sinkhole appeared. 

Due to this, for sure many lives will be affected on the incident. I was also wondering why within this year many sinkhole appeared in different area. Where do these sinkholes come from or how do these sinkholes were formed?

According to wikipedia (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sinkhole), a sinkhole, also known as a sink, snake hole, swallow hole, swallet, doline, or cenote, is a natural depression or hole in the Earth's surface caused by karst processes — the chemical dissolution of carbonate rocks or suffosion processes for example in sandstone. Sinkholes may vary in size from 1 to 600 meters (3.3 to 2,000 ft) both in diameter and depth, and vary in form from soil-lined bowls to bedrock-edged chasms. Sinkholes may be formed gradually or suddenly, and are found worldwide. The different terms for sinkholes are often used interchangeably.

But these sinkholes still remains a doubt in my mind, is this due to the earthquake that happened last February? As I connect the event and news about the appearing sinkholes in different areas, I realized those sinkholes were seen after the 6.9 magnitude earthquake that hit Cebu last February 6, 2012.

My Baby inside my womb is moving - I can feel it!

I was watching TV just this noon of July 2, 2012. I lay down in our sofa when I felt my baby is moving. I caress my tummy with my hand and felt that my angel inside my womb is really moving. I am so happy ! ^^